An unforgiving Mormon is an oxymoron

I admit it, this phrase is not mine, I stole from Dr. H; however, it makes me think of how sometimes great arguments or grudges arise from really little things. I was thinking, maybe I can write an example of one but I couldn’t think of any. I guess that’s a good thing. Anyways, this topic reminds me of that talk by Elder Bernard, the one that talks about how we can choose whether to be offended or not. I think it is really sad how lives are destroyed because of bitterness and anger over very small issues. My personal philosophy is that one someone does something to me that might anger me, I just decide to smile and look at it the funny way (now that I just said this, I’m sure I’m gonna to be tested pretty soon).